It’s hard to imagine a world without being intimately connected with other people. Trust me; I have tried. Like most species, we do best with healthy, loving relationships. We crave connection and a sense of belonging. When we feel like we do not belong, many of us become lost, confused, depressed, lonely, and anxiety-ridden. These challenging emotions often lead to addiction, isolation, violence, and self-destruction. In short, we need each other. This is not meant to be a solo journey.
Our search for meaningful and healthy relationships can be frustrating, to say the least. At times dating can feel like playing slot machines in a casino. Novels, movies, and TV have created a fictitious version of dating, relationships, and intimacy. We don’t have scriptwriters, makeup artists, or actors in real life. In real life, dating and relationships need trust, respect, commitment, our own version of what love means to us, and, of course, amazing sex! On the outside, it may appear that intimacy and sex have to be separate from trust, respect, commitment, and love, but that is an illusion. At our core, most men and women want the same things – love, respect, and connection. Men are from Mars, and women are from Venus is another illusion. We want the same things, but how much and what they look like is where our differences express themselves. Communication with trust, creativity, and commitment is essential to healthy and balanced relationships. This is what our work is in dating and relationships.
“I was skeptical about hiring a dating coach, partially because I am an attractive, intelligent, and successful woman and partly because he is a man. I thought a woman might be better, but I was so wrong! Michael understands women in a way I have not felt from a man before. He gives clear, honest feedback and listens attentively. He has a fun sense of humor, gotta laugh at dating, and helped me make sense of all the crazy thoughts running around in my head. Mostly, I feel more confident now and have begun dating again. So far, so good! Definitely call Michael if you want to get started dating in a way that feels good, no more dead ends.” Allison
“We actually only met with Michael once. We were seeking support and guidance with our marriage. Truthfully, I was not keen on counseling or Coaching, but my wife thought it would help, and I agreed to go. I was surprised by how quickly Michael assessed our situation and offered suggestions. They were right on the money! We feel like we have been given a breath of fresh air and can get back on track. Not everything is hunky-dory, but we are motivated and trying. For us, that was all we needed. Other couples may want to work with Michael longer. Thank you, Michael.” Dand and Michelle
- Growing Together Personal & Spiritual Development Group (Online)!
Come Join The Circle! What are we doing? We are a group of people discussing our honest feelings on safety, trauma, healing, boundaries, connection, relationships, drugs, love, sex, money, mental health, wellbeing, gender, race, culture, and work, or whatever feels alive for us. Basically, being human. We’ll pick a topic, trade stories, have a moderated discussion, and start and close the group with meditation or… - Second Degree Reiki Training on March 30 & 31, 2026!
I am excited to offer a Second Degree Reiki Training on March 30 & 31, 2026, from 1:00 – 6:00! Anyone who has completed First Degree Reiki Training (Reiki Level One) is invited to participate and move to the next level in your practice. This Reiki Training will be located in North Kingstown, RI. - First Degree Reiki Training March 21 & 22, 2026!
A Special First Degree Reiki Training on Saturday and Sunday, March 21 & 22, 2026, from 1:00-6:00. First Degree Traditional Usui Reiki Training is where all new Reiki students begin their Reiki Training. In this class, students receive all four First Degree Reiki Attunements, practice sharing and receiving Reiki, and are ready to share Reiki with friends, family, and emergencies. - We Need Friends Of All Genders, Especially When Partnered
I am an adult. As an adult, I want and need friends. We need friends from all genders, especially when partnered. It is 2026, and we know we need people and connections to survive and thrive in the world today. Couples were never meant to do this alone. Why would we want to put this much pressure and burden on one person? At some point,… - Reedsy Discovery Book ReviewHere is the Reedsy Discovery Book Review submitted on December 14, 2024. Loved it! ? Overall Rating: ⭐⭐⭐⭐ Heavy, raw, emotional and vulnerable, but ultimately inspiring and hopeful
- 7 Psychological Hacks That Make You Instantly More AttractiveI tend to roll my eyes when anyone offers “psychological hacks”. And I did with some of these as well. I invite you to use them as ideas and concepts rather than a set of behaviors to mimic. My concern is that in trying to apply these methods, you may lose your natural means of expressing yourself and lack authenticity. Again, psychological hacks are concepts,…
