Most couples struggle with conflict resolution. They may call it communication, anger issues, conflict avoidance, contempt, manipulation, narcissism, trauma response, triggers,…
Posts TaggedThe Gottman Institute
What Are We Fighting For?
What are we fighting for or about? We all need to ask ourselves this question when we conflict with another person,…
Honest Sex – An Updated Definition of Sex
Honest Sex. It is time for an updated, honest definition of sex. It is not 1958, and we are not the…
Dating Through Gottman Principles
Imagine everybody dating through Gottman Principles. What would it feel like to be and connect with people safely as authentic selves?…
Boundaries Help Us Connect + Exquisite Consent
I have just returned from two weeks at the annual Dance New England Dance Camp. I have been a participant for…
The Marriage Lesson That I Learned Too Late
I have heard the statement “The Marriage Lesson That I Learned Too Late” much too often. This is also true for…
Do I Need to Heal Before Dating Again?
Do I need to heal before dating again? When is the right time to start dating again after a relationship? Is…