The art of knowing is knowing what to ignore

I saw this posted recently by a friend on Facebook, yes, Facebook. Again, from Rumi, “The art of knowing is knowing what to ignore.” I appreciate the simplicity of this illustration and how it depicts the lens through which we each view life, and what we see or do not see.

“The art of knowing is knowing what to ignore.” Rumi

Real Life Application – The Art of Knowing is Knowing What to Ignore

When I returned to the States in 2009 after a year and a half in Asia, I accepted an opportunity to work at a recording studio in Edison, NJ. After about six months, the owner decided he wanted to return to a staff of just one: himself. At the time, I immediately felt a sense of fear and urgency to find a solution.

I was speaking with a friend, and she became very anxious about my situation. She was angry at my former employer and wanted me to confront him about the situation. I did not think this was prudent or a productive route. He wanted to return to work on his own. He has that right and chose with respect and integrity, although it was disappointing to me.

During my time at the recording studio, I learned from Nanda, my former supervisor, about some excellent PA equipment that he used and its value as a professional. After purchasing the PA system, he recommended that I determine it would be an excellent opportunity for me to start a professional Wedding DJ business. I had been a DJ when I was younger and knew the skills were still there.

Believe it or not, this was my primary source of income for the next three years! This gave me time to work on some novels I had written overseas and refocus my work with others. This has directed me towards Holistic Counseling Services, where I can utilize the skills and experience I’ve developed over 20 years as a Social Worker, Counselor, Coach, Mentor, and Reiki Teaching Master! You are reading this page because I “saw” an opportunity when Nanda made his decision. I did not “see” a grim, desperate situation. I “ignored” the potential financial and personal consequences of not creating income for myself. I “ignored” the fact that I had no real business plan, which organically formed along the way.

Like the two prison inmates in the comic above, the lens through which we interpret our situation, circumstances, and life directly shapes our experience and whether we enjoy or detest it. Our lens is critical to our ability to find the internal and external resources we need to succeed, whatever success means to us personally.

Today, I am grateful for Nanda and his choice to let me go. I am here in Providence, Rhode Island, flourishing. It took time, effort, and creativity along the way. I am curious to see what is next for you, me, and us!